Hes also really dominant and works at a start up doing marketing. I really think you should try giving your bf the silent treatment just to see how he reacts. And, they do this because we allow them to do this. I had no idea your boyfriend is sensitive, but I know my ex-boyfriend was very similar to the guy you're describing. He expected me to agree with him 100 percent of the time, and, when I didn't, I almost expected a bad reaction from him. If you erase a discussion because you don't like the way it's going, that is extremely frustrating to everyone who has taken an interest in the topic. He's either in a relationship with a woman that refuses to respect him because of a traumatic experience he had or she leaves.
I tried to call him back a couple of times and he didnt answer. I'm convinced it's because of chicks like this that me and my boyfriend's ex have the relationship that we do. My ex suffers from anxiety and depression. He was not always this way, I just let him get away with a few things and didnt handle them properly and he ran amuck with it and took advantage. He probably is really stuck on you, but he seems a bit insecure and, when he's upset with you, like a typical Gemini, he will get into a blue funk and withdraw from you.
He was an attorney who was often in the public eye. Like you, I used to feel he really loved me, that is, until he started cheating on me. This is the best, most brief, most accurate way I have ever seen anxiety summed up. I have actually given some thought before to a few of the points that you made. I have had this talk with him before but exposing the fact that it bothers me, seems to make him do it more when hes mad. I thought he must be passive-aggressive because I recently broke off with a man of this type. Accept your judgment This sub is here for the submitter to discover what everyone else thinks of the ethics or mores of a situation.
Something needs to be done and quick. You might want to point that out to him. If the kids are with him, he should be the one responsible for them, not her, and he needs to know about what his girlfriend is doing, especially in regards to the safety issues. They're the people behind those funny vintage-looking cards you've probably seen at least once on your Facebook feed. If he doesn't react or if he continues treating you this way, you might consider finding someone who is more communicative, since this obviously bothers you. More like group therapy, which is crazy enough that it might actually work. Whether you like sugar for the eyes, or laughing hysterically, this selection of free adult ecards and funny naughty ecards spanks your funny bone.
Its not easy dealing with a girl who is barely an adult herself trying to help raise kids that aren't hers. Why does she have the kids not your ex at the game etc! Most Twins would probably be better off if they simply stuck with their alter-ego for companionship and forgot about even trying to get along with another ordinary human, especially in an intimate relationship. Sarah, I really believe you need a boyfriend who is more communicative than your boyfriend. Apparently hes very depressed when he ignores me but does it anyway. This is not necessarily a fluke because I know personally of two Geminis count them, one.
Every time that my boyfriend and I get into a fight, he gives me the silent treatment. Sarah, Since your Gemini boyfriend is used to giving you the silent treatment and having you jump every time he calls or whistles, I would advise you to wait a little longer before responding to his messages. Youre right about the anger part. He actually sent me 2 messages on facebook. Then when he takes me a little more seriously again, i can have an encouraging talk with him to express himself. I just find it hard to take it any other way when I have explained to him before the way it makes me feel.
Be the better person, stay calm for your kids, and if you can do anything legal about it, do it! My best friend thinks i should try to keep dating him for a bit but im really not attracted to him like i was before. If he can't see her behavior is nutso, then you need to do everything the previous posters said about going to a lawyer, child services, police, anything you can and try to get sole custody with supervised visitations with dad only. As an individual, you should have the right to see your friends and to spend time away from him. If you have read this far, thank you for being conscientious! My only advice is to be patient and when he does come around, talk to him, see if he's willing to seek help or go to counseling. My ex and I have been apart for 3 years. Well, that was a week ago and tonight we got into a random fight that he decided to pick out of nowhere and he hung up the phone on me.
In general hes very smart, funny, yadda yadda you get it. The purpose of this space is to determine whether or not someone is in the wrong, not to tear them a new one. All submissions that ask for advice instead of or in addition to judgment will be removed. Maybe he'll miss you and realize how his behavior makes you feel. The question is: Can you live with that? Since I don't know the history of your relationship, it's hard to second guess this guy, but I suspect he's a sensitive type who is used to having his own way.