I'd never fucked anyone before. I didn't feel anything squirting inside, which was the main thing I was hoping to feel, but he's not a big shooter. I still don't like it much, 36 years later. He started off going down on me, while I rubbed his cock gently. I have since bottomed only 4 other times, at the request of my boyfriend of 20 years. I have a tendency to be too eager and take it without quite as much lube as I should, which feels fine in the moment, but not so much later.
Additionally, douching is important for a cleaner experience. So I met the guy's friend, plus a third guy. So why is finding a good top so hard to find? So do yourself a favor and invest in some good quality lube. But I will always remember that night. We fucked like rabbits taking turns - in our dorm rooms, in the woods, in my bedroom at my parents house - he even jacked me off when I was in the hospital recoveding from eye surgery! Hey Carleton, The most comfortable position really comes down to what kind of dick and shape you are dealing with! What if the next time its so good you cum from it without touching your cock? I was 15 and my friend wanted to fuck me. Went to his place, talked to his elderly landlady - intimidating to a not out teenager- and went to his top floor apartment in an old mansion. Start off with jacking off then put a lot of lube on one of your fingers then while your hard jacking off play with your hole a little bit.
Nothing turns me on more than the day I am being thrusted like a woman. He put a lot of effort into it but he was destined to be a bottom. One of the biggest turn offs for most tops is finding out that one of his bottoms has just eaten a meal before he gets thumped. So, I decided to call it quits. Make sure your hands are clean and your fingernails are cut. He asked if I wanted to go upstairs to his bedroom and I climed the stairs in front of him and wiggled my bare ass seductively. Do you really think it is attractive to hear your stomach gurgling as it breaks down that sandwich you just inhaled? We hate to break it to you but it it is just really weird for a top man to be inside of a guy who refers to himself this way.
But one of the biggest ways to turn off your top is when you call your butt something ordinarily reserved for girls. Is it safe to douche before having sex back to back to back as douche Friday, Saturday, and Sunday before sex? When I was 19 I ran into him when I was home from college. Despite the control, your anus won't have as much flexibility as in other positions. But overall it was an okay experience, and not something I'd do on a regular basis. I knew cleanliness was next to godliness! Once you become comfortable with this process then you should be more comfortable with real sex.
Usually it takes a good ripping or some bad experiences to set me back. I am totally straight acting but in bed I prefer and get turned on by playing the submissive role. I recently met a guy and we both really wanna have sex, but it is his first time, so he never was bottom before. He eventually came deep inside me, and I could feel his cock pulsating yet again, but not the cum gushing out itself. The most important piece of advice I can give to anyone with concerns about bottoming is to be relaxed. We were in bed within 2 minutes and he was inside me within another minute. Perfectly pleasant but does nothing for me.
Didn't bother to help me get off or even help me realize I could just help that along myself. Hurt like hell he liked it lube-less, and I was so green I didn't realize that lube would have been a valid request -- I wanted to pleaaaase him , but got to where it felt incredible. I always came very vocally, but he never did. I usually take it easy on him as I'm pretty thick and long, so I stroke him until I dump my week-long load. What if the next time its so good you cum from it without touching your cock? Once you're even the slightest bit less tight, it will hurt less and the overwhelming feeling will be good. He would get my pants down and climb on top of me.
Then he started playing with my ass a lot, so I asked him if he was signaling he wanted to fuck me. I finally caught his eye and he motioned for me to come around to his block. Then find somebody who you know. Alas, a month later I was replaced with another wide-eyed novice. He did not have a huge dick as one might think a Latin would but what he had, oh my did he know how to use it! Taking a nice, warm bath is also a great idea as it will help you relax which is what you are going for. I think of him and wonder whatever happened to him. Biggest Turn Off Poll If you happen to be a top or versatile, be sure to vote in this biggest.
No pot, no alcohol, no poppers, no other drugs. I was starting to feel really horny and thrusted myself back on his cock. It hurt a lot that first time but I followed through. Feel free to reach out to me if you would like to discuss your struggle with your sexual orientation, and how it relates to others in your community. He prepared my butt for about 30 minutes by inserting his finger and thumb inside my butt using lot of glycerine as lube.