Lack Of Confidence Marriage brings responsibilities, and even if a man is interested in marrying, he may not feel certain about how he would deal with them. We all should stop hating on Nigerian women and that stereotype that Nigerian girls are this and that should stop. Getting married means having less time for those weekend getaways with his best friends. Yes girls are materialistic and selfish but there's a proviso here, it doesn't pertain to Nigerian girls alone. No man wants to admit it, but a strike to the ego may as well be a gunshot to the heart.
Men mostly fear that after marriage, all these will become your top priority and they will be considered the second best. A ring doesn't equal love to most men. Being able to be open, honest and your real self with one person is something special and both of you are willing to go to new heights with one another. Please, keep your shallow mindset to yourself and stop generalizing. For the longest time, f or a majority of the female population in our country, the Indian dream amounted to finding the perfect life partner, making babies and looking after them.
After all, his life will be all boring and incomplete without you! Why does marriage frighten him? And we usually only love the kids of our family. At the end of the article, share your thoughts and what should be added to the list. Unsuccessful marriage or love makes him think the same will or might happen with him. Poor Perception Of Wives Why Are Men Afraid Of Marriage? If you want me to just guess what I think the deal is, it's this: you have all the hobbies and friends and job and everything but your real true priority is love and family. It changes everything between the couple. But most men tend to focus on the negative aspects of it, and develop an inaccurate image of having a lady as a life partner. Hate Commitment Commitment seems to bore some men.
Moreover, they also perceive marriage as a threat to the bromance they enjoy with their friends. It is recommended that couples attend counselling sessions to ensure that these misconceptions which are mostly psychological are dealt with. If you liked this article, please take a minute to e-mail your friends and let them know about it. When you see anything about weddings in the media, it's always presented as if only the woman cares about the day, and that men are just along for the ride. Maybe you grew up with an alcoholic or promiscuous mother. I think she feels I don't want her to be my wife, but that is far from the truth.
They think it will get old and boring, but no one is telling them how wonderful it can be. Although, to some extent it is true, if you are deeply in love with each other, you would always look forward to making love, as it is one of the most expressive ways of telling your partner about your feelings. While it is okay for some, some men fear losing their old habits, viewing these as their original self. This will help you figure out if you're seeing this situation clearly and if your own issues are hindering this relationship from progressing in any way. We ask that comments are civil and free of libellous or hateful material. However, if you are mature enough to know somethings are going to change, but change is the natural progression of life, then everything will be fine. End Of Romance Guys like romance too.
I can say with confidence that they can. Honey moon time last a short time but the true reality you must face just as when you start working a new job. I knew deep in my heart that marrying Bruce was a good idea, but I was scared of marriage — for good reason! Anyone is allowed to ask and answer questions. If you're living together, if you have a family and if you have financial commitments, you're bound in the eyes of the law anyway. To some men, marriage comes with financial, personal, and social burdens. Black men think about this constantly and find it to be foolish, but will do it if their bride insist. One thing men fear about marriage is the change it will bring in you.
The result, arguments and may be a breakup. About Us We persevere to carefully curate the quintessential collection of all the crucial knowledge and best possible advice that a new bride could possibly need. They assumed their marriage doubts would go away, they thought their love was strong enough to overpower their concerns and fears about getting married. Body, worldly goods and belongings. Now you may nag him at least once a day. This approach will never help you break the vicious circle and overcome your laziness, because bad habits gradually become a significant part of your lifestyle. They may seem odd, but you need to understand that like all phobias, these are conditioned responses.
The first two options are acceptable; the last one usually ends very badly. Nobody goes into a marriage expecting it to go wrong, but society has almost programmed us to assume there's a good chance it will go wrong. If he isn't popping the question, it doesn't mean that he's about to jump into bed with another woman. We welcome reader comments on the top stories of the day. People's issues stay the same, mostly.