Personally I usually find it a bit on the painful side, but one time I tried and I was really relaxed and I actually sort of like it ;P. I hate these men who think they need to liberate the poor prudish souls of the world from their fears by taking away their scary decisions and making choices for them. The anal muscles need to relax to be able to accommodate your member. I figured, if this guy knows how to perform open heart surgery, he also probably knows how to correctly execute anal sex without complications. Use a good quality lubricant eg. Wanting to stick it in her excrement-orifice makes her feel inadequate.
Anal sex is more pleasurable for a man than a woman. First of all, tell your girlfriend that you love her as she is, even if she is not clean. The idea here is to eat her out, while leaving her asshole extremely vulnerable. Not to mention you can also give your partner hemorrhoids as well. Apply Xylocain Jelly 2% in and around her anal hole 15 mins before.
The weirdos I encounter are not my sexual partners. I never ask for anal sex, I just go for the kill, if the girl is horny enough she will almost never object if you try to stick up her ass. Note what exactly in your foreplay makes her really hot. Anus do not produce own juices, so have to make it wet on your own. Sorry to burst your bubble but I shy away from it if I were you otherwise if you do it wrong, you and your girl will be on the emergency department stories of idiotic people. Last week I asked her if she would like to try things Anally? Believe me, while we are on our lunch breaks we definitely talk about the dumb things people do that makes them come to the emergency department. From here it should be pretty obvious — graduate to fingers and such.
My sexual partners have, almost exclusively been very well behaved unless I didn't want them to be. My best advice, leave the pornstar stuff out of it because once your girl gets a prolapse rectum I doubt she would want to try it again. Of course that does not mean I am not trying it again. You might see that in porn, but the fact of the matter is this girlfriend of yours is not a porn star. In their case, the weirdo is in bed with them. I don't mind being a little adventurous and he asked me if I'd be open to trying it sometime. After that, moving on to full on anal will be no problem.
Educate her for swallowing cum - 1. He made me view him as someone who I could see myself with for a while, and because of this I was comfortable enough with him to give anal a try. They fear you will think bad of her, knowing she is curious about. The gritty details of the act don't exactly lend themselves well to being talked about over dinner. After about a dozen or so passes you should be grabbing her ass cheeks in hand and massaging the shit out of them. Goodness, but there's seriously enough derranged people in the world without having to find out you've let one into your bed.
If you don't know what that is google images and you'll see. Go slowly, working a fraction of an inch at a time. Even if you use a condom, for your partner hard anal sex increases the risk of giving your partner a prolapse rectum. After that, get your fingers involved. I've had guys try to do that 'whoops, sorry wrong hole' thing in the past, so I just appreciated that he wasn't a total dick about it. Vaseline or any other synthetic lubricant is essential you can find very good lubricating oils online or in pharmacies.
If the girl is not enjoying I stop. Getting a tattoo is painful that's why I don't have one. However, if she is not in the mood I try not to argue or discuss her reasons. This is undoubtedly a veteran seeking the fullness and pleasure of this illicit act! I was a victim once, but that will never happen again. Show your best diplomacy skills, because it often happens that women don't want to tell how they feel about it, or just shy, or have health problems that can make a big obstacle. If you find anything inappropiate on this site please report to the webmaster! Just bear in mind at all times that she has a vagina.
Many girls find it tight and not pleasant. Perfecting the settingFirst of all, she needs to be relaxed and prepared; anal sex is not suited for a quickie. Thank God for college and dormitories because it made me a liberated sex freak, but one thing I never tried was anal sex. In the next 5 seconds, you will know with absolute certainty whether she is willing to anally accommodate your dick. It is bad enough two dudes in this thread think it is acceptable to harangue a partner into acts they have rejected, they think it os okay to randomly sodomize people, or introduce anything that os remotely radical by just inflicting their porn-inspired bullshit on their unsuspecting partners. If she's into it, do that the next few times.
Ask people who've actually had anal sex. I'm never in the mood to put up with bullshit nor abuse, and so I tolerate neither. Just go ahead and accept that reality right now, and try to schedule your aspirations accordingly. So, how do you successfully gain access to that other hole? You have to take one step at a time. Unlike the vagina, anal hole doesn't have the tissues to accommodate your penis. The weirdos are a part of going outside alone a lot. Anal sex can be painful for a woman, especially the first time.