I'm in exactly the same place man. I never expected this to happen; after some time of getting to know her very well, I realized how much of a badass she really was and that's when the lovebug hit me. In-fact I am still getting over it and it has been almost 7 months. Eventually he asked her out, she shot him down and he dipped out of both our lives for a bit. Bored by men, the women in the song come together because they want to be free to feel how they feel. She may be nice about it, but the fact that you're in love with her is unlikely to budge her orientation in the slightest.
Please bear my bad english In the 1st Q of 2012 I started to forge a very strong, really close friendship with this girl I already knew was a lesbian. But as they say, it's much easier said then done. I fell in love with a lesbian , we never met but talking on phone , chatting on facebook , already passed 4 months. Believe you me, I have been falling for girls all my life but this thing happens. If you can, find value in her in non-romantic ways.
Right now I'm like her closest friend with the exception of her best friend, and I'm sure she can tell that I have an attraction to her as I make perverted jokes towards her all the time and she makes them right back at me. I already did step 3, and confessed my love, because the feeling was too strong to keep inside, and I believe it to be a gift of God to be in love. If she's not single, handle this with caution. That has to mean something though right? I don't want to stop being there for her, as much for her sake as mine, since she's openly stated she doesn't want to lose me and can't imagine life without me there, and I feel the same way. That part about her always saying that if she was attracted in that way to men then you would be the one for her and that's the reason you can't be together suggest that she didn't want to raise your hopes so apparently she knew before that you have crush on her , since she was sure that she couldn't build relationship with a man, and looks like she understood that if you knew that she's attracted sexually to men to some point then her statement about being lesbian would sound less definitive in your eyes - and that actually have happened.
Here is the Joan Armatrading classic, The Weakness in Me. A lot of the reason why I am how I am today is because of my experiences with women. Singer and songwriter Melissa Etheridge came out as a lesbian in 2002 when she fell in love with her best friend of 10 years. Long story short, my friend ended with broken heart, since the wife didn't want to leave her husband. Sure, on the one hand, I'd like to help her get closer to her parents, but if this is an act, how long will she be able to keep this going? She negated to tell me she was a lesbian. It is more of a disgrace among lesbians to leave her partner for a man than for another woman because it is almost like a betrayal of her species. And she went off on me she said I don't even want to be friends with you, you were probably lying to me when you said that you liked me.
I have been with my partner for almost three years now, but I always dated men previous to that. But the harsh truth can be intimating and make you feel vulnerable. I also know that it wouldn't be fair for me to start dating again knowing no one will make me feel the way she does. At the end of the day what does all the chasing amount to? I know some a bit analogical situation from lesbian perspective. We always hang out and do stuff together and we just cant not seeing each other more than 2-3 days.
Had no idea this was common occurrence. But keep on hunting for other birds at the same time coz sky is the limit. Oh, and to everybody who posted comments here over the past two years: Thanks. Time went on, she got into some sticky situations that really wore here down emotionally, and again I tried my best to be there. Here are our favourites, in no particular order. My feelings were still there though, but I never brought them up again.
I actually heard everything she told me through the grapevine previously. It's not easy, and it's probably not the best idea if you are ever going to move on tbh. I am talented when it comes to drawing, like the people do in a courtroom and can draw anything im looking at. And while I'm crying in her arms she starts softly running her fingers on my shoulders I was wearing a tank top so it wasn't over clothes. After that I told her that I was going to leave before it all gets more awkward and so I did, hoping that she would just stop me and say anything to me, but she did not. I like to find humor in anything so here it is. I wanted to hear the words from her, no more third party bull shit.
Shes a lesbian and she thinks its cool. So she got in her car as I continued to try and convince her to come. After almost 2 years she still makes me feel this. I'm in basically the same situation as many of the other posters here. Watch as today's biggest superstars and hottest newcomers lose their minds in a fem-frenzy of fingers, tongues, tribbing, and toys! So Erin being one of my best friends I couldn't let this happen. I fight the urge to confess my love to my dear sweet K in case it ruins our friendship.
I told her I just needed to be 100% sure there was no chance for us before I tried to move on. I also feel that she must be very confused about this and as her friend I am not going to bring it up any time soon. When she told me that I just lost it. Communicate with her the best you can. Listening to this song once is enough to get it stuck in your head all day. However, at this point I would like to point out that I'm only crushing on her very hard.